As a middle aged atheist construction worker, Punk rocker and Libertarian, My views often contrast with people I meet and know.
I have acquired my views and thoughts over many years of observing the workings of the universe while spinning through space on this blue ball.
I am convinced my views are correct while at the same time not insisting that everyone agree with me. My views are my own. My actions and words are also my own. These things are often more important than my views.
Here is an example:
I work with a young man around my sons age (20s) and he recently told me about some custody and relationship problems he was having in his family. Instead of telling him what I thought or what I thought he should do, I instead did something awesome. I listened to him. I acknowledged his thoughts and opinions and I tried to show genuine concern for the situation. When he got done telling me about his life and problems I replied to him about how That is a rough situation and how I understood those emotions better than he did. I smiled at him and told him that it would probably all work out because those kinds of things usually do.
He seemed to like my response and it made me feel really good to listen to this young man instead of telling him my facts and opinions.
Have you ever listened to someone … if you agree or disagree with their core belief, Just so you could show the person some compassion?
I did, and it felt pretty good.
Have you ever listened to someone … if you agree or disagree with their core belief, Just so you could show the person some compassion?
Certainly. Listening without judging or offering unsolicited advice is high on the list of acts of compassion.
I have found that most people just want to talk, get something off their chest so to speak, rather than have someone tell them what they think.
I am a good listener, have been for all my 72 yrs.
I would only give my answer, if they ask “What do you think”?
Depends on whether I am manic, sane or depressed. Being crazy is exhausting.
similar.
Hello
Hope you’re having a nice day. 🙂
not bad actually, surprisingly 🙂
That’s very good to hear.
… and same here.
Just wanted to say Hello … I’ll do it again sometime. Hope you have a nice day. 🙂
thank you. same to you 🙂
It’s exhausting for most to be around others like that.
Hello CTP. 🙂
What do you think of the way disqus dismantled the channels?
It ain’t what I expected.
Not what I expected also. Seems a lot of nasty folks went bye bye. And folks migrated in flocks.
It IS. I’m dating someone with bipolar disorder, AND someone with DID. And I’m autistic. It actually works out.
Sounds like a blast.
If it works, let it boogie on.
it’s how a good therapist responds.
Most disagreements are frivolous. Not worth offending somebody by standing your ground. If a person is of good overall character and good social company, that counts most.
If people learned the details of family law before having children, there would be far fewer people having children.
true
This is how I handle disagreement:
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OMG!
Just a little dark humor.
He’s great (Joshua S) !! & Timmy too !!! 😊
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Life is hammering me.
I need More Time.
Sorry.
Take your time, Purp.
I hope you’ll get an outcome soon.
Take care.
Hello Ms @murn_disqus:disqus. It’s awesome you chose to create new place for all to continuing to converse with each others.
It lQQks great and it’s always so nice to see when you’re out and about. CU again sometime. :))
Good morning Trish,
Yes, it’s just to continue MNC. I thought it would be too sad to let all go just like that.
I am glad that there are still many friends like yourself on here. I thought everyone was gone.
Feel free to join us here when you have the chance.
Yes, CU again sometimes.😉
Thank you for contributing like usual. 🤗
Hi @Sam_purple1:disqus. Hope things are better.
It’s nice to see you still post out here. It sure was something for disqus to have shut down all the channels. It’s not what I expected tho.
I just love Purple and Green !
@disqus_JCcC0dAJBG:disqus
I saw no images, so I put that one.
Don’t forget to recommend and upvote your post.
Thanks for posting
I tried to post one with it …..
I guess I did something incorrect.
I will try to post another picture with my next post.
Thank you
With the picture on the post.
You need to insert it right away after finish typing before submitting your post, then your picture will automatically be featured on both: site home and Disqus home.
To insert the picture is by clicking the “add media” button.
I’m sure you know that, otherwise please let me know…:))
ok … thanks … I will try.
Great,
I start seeing the good and funny sides of you.
Keep those on here ….
Your posts were praised by many, you surprised them in a very positive way.
Do you like me to do the tagging for your posts? You can do it to your friends too if you like.
Murn. Thank you for the kind words. I would also like to thank you for letting me post and trusing me not to bugger up your blog. I will respect your rules while trying to add positive energy to the world when I get a chance.
Most of the people who are fans of my Disqus shinanigans would not make appropriate posters for your blog.
We have plenty of blogs and websites to troll with humor and boob pictures … your blog is different than those and that’s why I like it.
You do things your own way …. I respect that 🙂
I’d like to thank you too for your contributions and for keeping your good behavior while on here.
I believe online doesn’t always be about trolling or porn or about nasty stuffs. Let’s spread the positive energy though this blog to share what we can that can bring smile to people who passed by this site. Thank you again….:)